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Final Expense Cost Calculator for New Jersey

Enter what you expect a funeral, burial or cremation and any final bills to cost, minus anything already set aside. If you have no figures yet, you can start from the national medians published by the National Funeral Directors Association, then replace them with local quotes.

The funeral
No figures yet? Start from a national median
National Funeral Directors Association 2023 national medians. They are not New Jersey prices and they leave out cemetery costs. A local funeral home price list is the better figure.
Other final bills

…final expense cover to consider

  • Total expected costs…
  • Already set aside…

Estimates only. Figures on this page use published values and the details you enter. They are not a quote, an offer of coverage, or a determination of eligibility. Coverage, benefit amounts and premiums are set by the carrier and subject to underwriting and approval. Everything is calculated in your browser; nothing you type is sent to us or anyone else.

How the final expense need is totaled

The calculator adds four groups of costs, then subtracts anything already set aside. The result is what a final expense policy would need to cover.

Funeral prices are itemized. The general price list separates a basic services fee from optional goods and services, so you can choose only what you want and price each choice on its own.

  1. Funeral: the service and burial or cremation, from a funeral home quote or the NFDA national median as a placeholder.
  2. Cemetery: plot or niche, opening and closing, marker or headstone. The NFDA medians exclude these.
  3. Final bills: medical bills, cards and other debts your family would settle.
  4. Other: flowers, obituary, travel for relatives, a reception.
  5. Set aside: earmarked savings, a pre-need contract or existing life insurance.
Total = funeral + cemetery + final bills + otherNeed = total minus set aside (never below zero)

Worked example: planning a cremation with viewing in Glassboro

Hypothetical person, not a client. A widow in Glassboro starts from the NFDA 2023 national median for a funeral with viewing and cremation, $6,280. She adds a $1,500 placeholder for a columbarium niche, $2,000 of final bills and $700 for an obituary, flowers and a reception: $10,480.

She keeps $3,000 in savings for this, so the need is $7,480.

Swapping in a burial changes it. The NFDA median with viewing and burial is $8,300, $2,020 more before a plot, vault or headstone.

Her next step is a written price list from two local funeral homes, then replacing every placeholder with a real figure.

She keeps the final figure on the same page as her policy details, so her children can find both when they need them.

A direct cremation, with no viewing beforehand, usually costs less than either median. Asking each funeral home for that price as well gives her a lower bound for the plan.

If her family preferred a burial with viewing, the plan would need a plot, an opening and closing fee and a marker added to the $8,300 median, which is why burial plans so often run well past the cremation figure.

Hypothetical plan
ItemAmount
Funeral with viewing and cremation (NFDA median)$6,280
Niche (placeholder)$1,500
Final bills$2,000
Obituary, flowers, reception$700
Already set asideminus $3,000
Need$7,480

Illustration: a hypothetical example built from the rules and figures cited on this page, not a quote.

Final expense planning mistakes

  • Treating a national median as a quote. NFDA figures are national and date from 2023. Federal rules require funeral providers to give itemized general price lists (16 CFR Part 453); ask for two.
  • Leaving out cemetery costs. Plots, opening and closing and markers are outside the medians.
  • Counting on Social Security. The lump-sum death payment is $255, paid only to an eligible spouse or child (SSA).
  • Buying far more than the need. Final expense policies are sized for a funeral and final bills; larger needs are a different conversation.
  • Keeping the policy a secret. A policy nobody knows about may never be claimed. Tell your executor where it is.
  • Prepaying without reading the contract. Pre-need contracts differ on refunds, transfers if you move, and what happens if the provider closes. Get those terms in writing.
  • Forgetting when the bill comes due. Funeral homes usually expect payment around the time of the service, while a life insurance claim takes paperwork and time. Ask how the policy pays and whether the funeral home accepts an assignment of benefits.

New Jersey choices that change the number

Funeral homes in New Jersey, as everywhere, must hand you an itemized general price list under the federal Funeral Rule, so you can compare two South Jersey providers line by line rather than package by package.

Veterans may be eligible for burial in a national or state veterans cemetery at little or no cost for the plot. Ask the VA about eligibility before you price a private plot.

Every state, New Jersey included, runs a Medicaid estate recovery program. If NJ FamilyCare paid for long-term care, ask how that affects any estate before counting on it for funeral costs.

South Jersey has many funeral homes, crematories and cemeteries within a short drive of one another, so comparing two or three price lists is practical. Ask each for its general price list by email or in person.

Key terms: Final expense calculator

General price list
The itemized list of goods and services a funeral provider must give you.
Basic services fee
The one charge a funeral home may require regardless of other choices.
Direct cremation
Cremation without a viewing or ceremony beforehand, usually the lowest-cost arrangement.
Cash advance items
Things the funeral home buys for you from others, such as flowers or obituary notices.
Graded death benefit
A guaranteed issue feature that pays a reduced benefit if death occurs in the early years of a policy.

Bring these to a final expense conversation

  • General price lists from two or more local funeral homes.
  • Cemetery or columbarium prices, including opening and closing and a marker.
  • Debts and final medical bills you expect.
  • Any pre-need contract, burial account or life policy already in place, and discharge papers for veterans.

What this assumes

  • The optional starting figures are NFDA 2023 national medians: $8,300 for a funeral with viewing and burial, $6,280 with viewing and cremation.
  • Those medians exclude cemetery plots, opening and closing the grave, a headstone or marker, flowers and obituaries. Add those separately.
  • They are national, not New Jersey, figures, and they are from 2023. A price list from a local funeral home is the better number.
  • Final expense life insurance is subject to underwriting and carrier approval.
  • An estimate from published figures and the numbers you enter, not a quote or an eligibility decision.

Where the figures come from

What the final expense calculator cannot settle

  • Local prices, which only a funeral home price list gives.
  • Whether you qualify for a policy; that depends on underwriting.
  • Premiums, which depend on age, health and benefit amount.
  • Waiting periods on guaranteed issue policies.
  • Whether a veteran or surviving spouse qualifies for burial or death benefits.

Call Jackie once you have a price list or a rough total. She can show final expense options sized to the need, explain how health questions affect the price, and keep it pressure free.

Final expense, annuity and supplemental products are subject to underwriting and carrier approval. Guarantees are based on the claims-paying ability of the issuing company. Nothing on this site is tax, legal or investment advice.

In clients' words

What working with Jackie looks like

Jackie provided amazing service, very helpful, and made me feel like I understood my options and assisted in the perfect choice.

Jane Metz, Vineland, NJ

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Common questions

How much does a funeral cost?

The National Funeral Directors Association’s 2023 study put the national median at $8,300 for a funeral with viewing and burial and $6,280 for one with viewing and cremation. Those medians leave out cemetery costs, and local prices differ, so ask a local New Jersey funeral home for its price list.

What is final expense insurance?

A smaller whole life policy meant to pay funeral costs and final bills. Some policies ask a few health questions; guaranteed issue policies ask none but usually cost more and may phase in the full benefit.

Do funeral homes have to give me a price list?

Yes. Under the Federal Trade Commission’s Funeral Rule, funeral homes must give you an itemized price list when you ask about arrangements in person, and give prices by phone if you ask.

Do you need a consultation?

Tell Jackie about your current situation. Telephone, Zoom or in person, at no cost to you. Call or text (856) 727-4221.

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Content reviewed by Jackie Layser, Licensed Medicare Insurance Agent at Garden State Medicare Solutions, New Jersey, helping Medicare clients since 2008. How we source and review our content. Last updated .